from Montalk Website
Your Own Reality” (YCYOR) is the predominant belief system of many
states that reality is entirely the product of our minds, and that by
controlling our beliefs, we may determine what happens to us: what events
we focus upon, we attract; what we do not focus upon, we do not
experience. Creating for oneself what one desires is called “manifesting”,
and having all one needs in life is called “abundance.”
For those who
utilize YCYOR, manifesting abundance is usually a key
Do we create our own reality? Yes we do, but not as freely as
proponents of YCYOR claim. As it exists, YCYOR is a faulty paradigm whose
incomplete nature was made so by design. This belief system is a dangerous
spiritual weapon used by negative forces to disarm their potential
victims. People who seek the New Age as an alternative to atheism or
Christianity are not improving their situations. They are merely falling
for further deception, the same trick with a new look. Like gravity, such
deceptions can be traps, or they can be used as slingshots to propel one
further along if one is careful and learns from mistakes.
several reasons why YCYOR is dangerous.
fools its followers into believing they are more spiritually evolved
than they truly are. Such New Agers are lulled into a false sense of
security, an overestimation of their abilities and invulnerability, and
thus fail to prepare against random accidents or attacks from negative
practice of “manifestation” often becomes an act of black magic when
used irresponsibly. Black magic is the manipulation of higher
forces by lower individuals to their own spiritual detriment. For
example, when corruptly implementing “manifestation” through
visualization, ritual, chanting, or meditation, one can circumvent one’s
life mission or agenda, extort one’s Higher Self, and violate the
freewill of other sovereign humans.
is used properly when it does not initiate a freewill violation.
Manifesting or requesting has different consequences, depending on
whether it is directed toward higher positive, higher negative, or lower
negative beings. “Higher” and “lower” refers to their relative level of
evolution compared to yours.
To explain all
this more clearly, a description of higher positive and
negative forces is necessary.
evolutionary level is determined by the lessons one has accumulated since
metaphysical genesis as an individuated being. What higher positive and
negative forces have in common is that they are both very aware and near
to their respective evolutionary finish lines. The difference between them
lies in their levels of wisdom, freewill and freedom, and what exactly
they are evolving toward.
Negative beings evolve toward the
sleeping half of the Creator, physicality. They are irresponsible,
lack wisdom, and have little freedom or freewill.
evolve toward the active half of the Creator, consciousness. They
possess much responsibility and discernment, are wise, and enjoy more
freedom due to their greater freewill and responsibility.
importance of the preceding clarification lies in the fact that, despite
having more awareness than you, higher negative forces actually have less
freewill. Physical matter itself is the end product of their evolution,
and it is obvious that matter has very little freewill. You can manipulate
it at your leisure, and it does not resist. You can perfectly predict its
behavior, meaning it is all predestined within a single unified equation,
leaving no room for novelty or freewill. Simply by operating under a
negative polarity, a being already acquires some of these
The awareness that higher negative forces have,
which exceed your level of awareness, is used only to create ever more
sophisticated technologies and tricks to circumvent your freewill which
they cannot directly violate except through backdoor methods and the abuse
of what permission you have given them. One such permission is in the form
of a contract with physicality you hold while existing in a physical body.
Their abuse of this contract can be seen in their extreme reliance upon
technology to try and manipulate you.
If you attempt to manifest
something through the help of negative higher forces, two factors must be
taken into consideration.
will not help you unless your desire is of a negative orientation, such
as lust for power, financial elitism, or sexual prowess.
these will be given to you if you pay the maximum price, which is the
circumvention of your life path, the lowering of your soul frequency, a
stunting of spiritual evolution, and a commission of your soul energy
paid to these higher forces.
freedom, freewill, responsibility and creativity in exchange for illusory
power, money or sex. This Faustian deal is no bargain, but a metaphysical
If you attempt to manifest something through the help of
positive higher forces (including your Higher Self), you can only request
help. Requesting respects their freewill, and leaves it to their wise
discretion whether to help you or not. They also respect your freewill and
do not intervene unless you allow them to help.
forces have more wisdom than you, and you would find it either impossible
or detrimental to force them, via trickery through corrupted visualization
and meditation, into fulfilling your desires. Should you succeed, most
often you will have made a very bad choice which seemed desirable at the
time only due to spiritual short sightedness.
It is clear that
attempting to manipulate beings and forces higher on the spiritual
hierarchy, be they of positive or negative polarity, can cause severe
problems. It is best to make requests to positive higher forces, to allow
them to help you in any way they can.
The positive (or STO,
Service to Other) hierarchy is a network.
higher evolved beings help lower evolved beings learn and evolve. In this
way, those higher beings evolve as well. Here on earth, those who think
they can fight through life alone are failing to make use of this network.
They are succumbing to negative influences because of their pride, and
must learn that because they are part of a network, requesting help from
higher positive forces is perfectly fine. If the request is pure, those
higher positive forces will help, especially if it aids in unblocking or
accelerating one’s spiritual evolution.
To make a distinction,
requesting is different from manifestation, in that it is an act of
calling upon positive higher forces while respecting their freewill,
leaving it up to them to help you if they deem it wise. Manifesting, on
the other hand, is a direct way of influencing your reality. Concerning
positive higher forces, requesting is the way to go. But with lower
evolved beings, manifestation is the appropriate method.
that manifestation works best when it does not violate freewill. It is
fact that freewill cannot be violated if it does not exist or is not being
used. Lower beings tend to either not have a particular aspect of
freewill, or else fail to use it. They are therefore primed for influence
by higher beings with more freewill. While this sounds insidious, remember
that higher freewill implies greater lessons learned, higher evolution,
and thus greater responsibility and wisdom. Your Higher Self has
controlled your actions countless of times, to ensure that certain
scripted events come to pass. This is no true violation of your freewill,
just influence of behavior to best facilitate evolution.
higher positive entities influences lower beings, it is done carefully and
for the greatest benefit of all. It only becomes insidious when the
awareness of the influenced being is purposely suppressed through
technology, disinformation, or trickery, which is what negative forces do
in order to lower the utilized freewill of their target to a level lower
than their own, which makes the target easily manipulated.
be seen, YCYOR either fools a person into thinking he can control reality
more than he really can (thus making him vulnerable to negative forces who
exploit his ignorance), or else ensures that when he does influence his
reality, it becomes an act of black magic which stunts his spiritual
This disinformative doctrine is a spiritual booby-trap,
plain and simple. Its targets are tricked into disarming and corrupting
themselves, avoiding the acquisition and utilization of knowledge,
sabotaging their own lives, and later blaming the resultant misery on
their failure to adhere even more strongly to YCYOR protocols.
reason YCYOR works so well is because it is based on a lot of metaphysical
truth. People awakening from more ignorant belief systems are lured by the
truth content of YCYOR. But as with all disinformation, its designers care
not so much what their targets know, but what they do. Despite a large
truth content which influences what its followers know, the few lies and
logical inconsistencies in the doctrine is enough to twist what they do.
Negative forces want them to do what is in line with the negative agenda.
Such targets are effectively “tenderized” for consumption or “disarmed”
Through twisted logic, certain faulty inferences
are made from the true idea that we create our own reality. Some of these
are listed below, followed by short explanations which will be elaborated
upon later in this article.
“If you don’t
believe in evil, it cannot harm you because it will not exist in your
that evil can harm you if you ignore it, is like thinking that a truck
cannot run you over if you close your eyes. It is better to open your eyes
and step out of the way.
Negative beings have freewill and a
definite objectivity in your reality. Many exist outside your range of
control, and can choose to attack you if they wish. Whether they succeed
in their attack is another matter, but the fact is that they will attack
and succeed if they can.
Their ability to succeed depends upon the
relative superiority of your freewill and the awareness required to access
it, metaphysical protection by higher forces or Higher Self, and your
physical and spiritual application of knowledge in the area of personal
defense against such attacks.
Manifestation involves intent, the
application of will in a particular direction of desired experience. This
direction is available only if one is aware of its possibility. Therefore,
ignorance cannot protect against anything. Protecting against an attack
must be based upon awareness of the many ways such an attack can happen.
Once you are aware of these ways, besides actually preparing to deal with
them, you can take additional preventative measures by focusing your will
upon the probable futures in which those specific methods of attack fail
to materialize or succeed.
Manifesting protection only works
against negative forces who have less freewill than you, who require that
you be unaware of a particular mode of attack such that they can use it as
a bridge into your reality. Freewill unused is freewill denied, for
awareness is the key that unlocks what freewill you have already gained
through earlier evolution.
Not being aware of an attack possibility
leaves it unclaimed by your freewill, and it is like having no freewill at
all. Like an unguarded bridge, this direction of experience involving a
particular mode of attack is hidden behind a blind spot in your field of
awareness. Negative forces, who would otherwise be unable to harm you due
to their lower freewill status, can cross this hidden bridge, breach your
reality, and implement an attack.
In such a case, preventing the
attack does not involve fighting these forces directly, but merely cutting
off their invasion route by guarding the bridge. This is done by becoming
aware of their attack methods.
Should an attack succeed, whether it
is through an unguarded bridge into your reality, or by negative forces
who are simply more powerful than you, or perhaps were allowed into your
reality by your protectors as a learning lesson for you, dealing with such
attacks requires direct active interaction, physical and psychological
preparation, and utilization of knowledge.
awareness/knowledge alone passively protects in the sense of “guarding the
bridges” and locking down one’s reality against attempted dislodging by
lower negative forces. But once such forces break through, it is only
through the active utilization of knowledge and awareness that these
attacks are thwarted. If they break through, it means some lesson has not
For all of us, spiritual evolution is impossible
without the active use and application of knowledge/awareness, for one
implies the other. With this fact in mind, it becomes clear why awareness
and knowledge alone can passively protect, but only sometimes.
When you are
more positively spiritually evolved than another being, you possess
greater freewill than that being. You have learned everything that being
has learned, and then some. All the attacks this being is capable of are
limited to the scope of its awareness, of what it has learned
Because you have learned all this being has learned
(evident by virtue of your higher spiritual evolution), all its attacks
against you are actually redundant as far as learning lessons for you
are concerned, for they cannot teach you anything you have not already
However, they can remind you of things you have
forgotten. That you have forgotten such lessons is the only reason such
lesson-redundant attacks can happen at all. Remember the lesson by
becoming aware of the attack method, and it loses all meaning and
justification. Your freewill then shuts out that attack from happening
since it would serve absolutely no purpose
In sum, the
passive protection of awareness/knowledge happens only when that
awareness/knowledge has already been utilized before, which led to an
increase in one’s level of spiritual evolution.
cannot passively protect if it has only recently been acquired but not yet
utilized. It will surely be put to the test first, either in active
preparation and prevention, or in direct “combat” against an attacking
A hostile being who is more evolved than you, despite having
less freewill, will probably be more clever than you and thus trick you
into accepting an attack. Its higher level of awareness means it has
something to teach you. And you will learn the easy way or the hard way,
depending on whether you prepared ahead of time or not.
As can be
seen, spiritual osmosis occurs throughout creation. Higher evolved beings,
no matter their polarity, always teach lower evolved beings, either
directly or indirectly.
When a lower being attacks, its attack can
be easily averted through remembrance or awareness of its possibility,
which accesses the freewill required to end the attack whose resulting
lessons you have already learned at some time.
When a higher being
attacks, proper passively counteractive freewill does not exist and can be
gained only through struggle and the application of knowledge/awareness,
which increases your spiritual evolution to a level equal or greater than
the attacker, at which point the attack ceases to materialize as long as
you remain aware of your lesson.
In relation to Reality Creation,
the preceding ideas reveal the fact that “manifestation” is the passive
application of knowledge/awareness, and should not (or often cannot) be
used to protect against things which one needs to experience in order to
This is why YCYOR’s “manifestation of protection” fails in
many instances, for a person using this doctrine might attempt to stop an
attack from succeeding by applying passive protection through
manifestation, but the attack is either necessary to help the person
evolve, or to help him remember the lessons he has already learned but
forgotten or ignored.
induce an intentional forgetting of lessons through:
In fact, the
induced ignorance guarantees that an attack happens successfully so that
the person eventually “wakes up” to the truth. Negative forces count upon
this principle to sustain their feeding. As long as the person can be
continuously tricked into ignoring lessons, the food supply stays
In that case,
either the person is fed upon simply because he can be fed upon (requiring
active utilization of knowledge/awareness to stop), or else the Higher
Self repeatedly allows its lower self to be food until the lower self
awakens and puts an end to it (which necessitates the passive use of
“You can transform
evil by sending it love”
have freewill, evolved negative forces can choose whether to accept your
love or not. And most often, they will not allow themselves to be
transformed by it. Trying to change a negative being this way is like
pouring a man many glasses of water and asking him to drown himself.
Often, this sent love can be of such a corrupted nature (due to
misperception of what love is) that it is of a frequency palatable
by negative beings who then feed upon it. Whether negative beings can feed upon
an emotion depends not so much upon what type of emotion it is, but
whether it is based on awareness or ignorance. Sympathy and compassion out
of ignorance makes better food than righteous anger, for
Sympathy and compassion out of knowledge would mean
sending love to beings who have not yet chosen their polarity, who out of
their suffering request and accept the love they receive. They thirst for
the water set before them. Discernment and experience is required for any
compassionate person to know when this is the case.
are etheric vampires seeking to
steal the energy of the compassionate by feigning distress, and giving
one’s love to these people only leads to an energy drain in oneself.
Whatever the case, one thing is certain: that the forces commonly
considered “evil” have chosen their polarity and therefore cannot be
changed. They can only be understood, for that results in empowerment of
the perceiver rather than attempted freewill violation of the
So as far as “transforming evil” is concerned, external
events cannot change one’s polarity (positive or negative, STO or STS), merely reinforce
what one has already freely chosen to be.
Receiving an act of
kindness may make a positive person beam with more positivity, or make a
negative person salivate with the prospect of feasting upon an easy prey.
Being physically abused may make a positive person reflect upon how
horrible such abuse is and how he would not wish the same upon anyone
else, while a negative person may abuse others out of vengeance and
Therefore, being nice to evil, showing it how act
positively, sending it love and light, and acting chivalrously toward it
usually ends in complete failure for you, and a full stomach for the
intended target. Negative forces do not play by the same rules as positive
forces, as they have no respect for respect, and no empathy for
You cannot transform evil, merely help it evolve. Yes,
negative forces are on a path of evolution. They are evolving toward the
Creator just like you are. The only difference is that they are evolving
toward the sleeping half of the Creator, associated with matter, lack of
freewill, and determinism.
Therefore, if you cannot transform a
negative being (you can only cautiously provide the opportunity for change
on its behalf, and allow it to choose its way) you can at least help it
evolve, which also helps you evolve. This is done by acting responsibly
and not feeding them. You learn how to better defend yourself, and they
learn how to better attack their targets.
Within the negative
hierarchy, beings force each other to evolve through constant competition,
tricks, manipulation, extortion, and violence. Within the positive
network, beings help each other evolve through creativity, compassion,
teaching, sharing, and learning.
To be positive or STO consists of
And here lies
another fault of YCYOR, the idea that all is “love and light” and one need
merely think fluffy thoughts and put on rose colored glasses, and all will
be fine. Another aspect to disinformation is missing information.
Here, New Agers
are taught only half the equation. Christians are taught the same thing
with the “turn the other cheek” idea which is actually a corruption of the
original meaning of the phrase.
The half of the equation they do
possess involve the ideals of creativity, compassion, teaching, and so on.
But when it comes to dealing with negative forces, they are wholly
ignorant and unprotected sheep. This is another principle that negative
beings count upon, for it makes their targets easy to feed upon and
When opposite polarities interact, problems can occur if
the positive being treats the negative being as though it were positive.
Rather than simply behaving “nicely”, being inclined toward STO means not
feeding STS; being positive means not feeding negative. No matter your
polarity, the only way a negative being will learn is through resistance
against its manipulations or attacks, on your part.
If you were of
negative polarity, you would often take the initiative to attack another
less powerful negative being, but if you were positive, you would only act
in self-defense and never actively provoke anything, merely respond if
your response was “requested” by another being through its act of
The best way for positive to interact with negative is
to not feed them, to act only in response to a hostile request, to stick
up for oneself if attacked, and to pick one’s battles wisely. Treating
them as though they were positive only feeds them more, and burns oneself
out, like the short-circuiting of two batteries incorrectly
This reveals yet another ploy of the dark side, that of
creating the illusion that a hostile being is just like the positive
target. Matrix agents such as organic portals, for example,
utilize the soul energies of their targets to mirror back at them their
own personality and essence.
This is a method of spiritual
camouflage. The target then stays open to manipulation and feeding, and
since the predatory behavior of the organic portals often contradicts the
image he maintains in the mind of the target, there will be confusion and
psychological friction in the mind of the target which generates more
energies to be consumed by the organic portal.
The trick in dealing
with organic portals is in realizing who and what they are, then adjusting
one’s perceptions, emotions, and actions to reflect that new awareness.
Because they are less evolved than their targets, passive protection of
knowledge/awareness often works very effectively in stopping their
If this does
not work, then asserting one’s freewill by standing up against them and
coolly putting them in their place is necessary.
“There are no
In truth, there
really are no limits.
But how easy is
it for you to shed your present limits? Is it enough to merely think to
yourself “there are no limits” and off you float above the ground as
gravity, formerly a limit, no longer remains part of your reality? The
fault of YCYOR is in making the phrase “there are no limits” appear more
general, easily applicable and achievable than it really is.
we exist here in physicality, there are several types of
limits are those that truly do not exist, except in your mind as a
consequence of your lack or suppression of awareness. These include such
things as personal insecurities, false beliefs about your intellectual
or physical abilities, glass ceilings, and subconscious
limits exist at the boundaries of your spiritual evolution. They are
things you are not capable of because you have not evolved to the point
where you can do them. Surpassing these limits requires spiritual
evolution, often through struggle and the active use of
limits are those placed upon you by beings with higher freewill than
you. They may be aspects of your own consciousness, such as your Higher
Self. These limits are mere handicaps, placed upon you so that you can
exist within this reality and learn other lessons.
limit is the “veil of amnesia” we are born with, which prevents us from
easily remembering all our other incarnations. Not knowing them, we
start each life with a fresh page, keeping only our soul essence from
our “last” life. This system maximizes the richness of experience and
the rate of spiritual evolution. Were we to recall all our lives all the
time, life would get boring very fast, and old habits would become very
hard to drop.
imposed limit is our predominant inability to communicate telepathically
or move objects with our minds. Could we do this, the world would be a
much easier place in which to live. There would be no secrets, no New World Order. But we did
not come to 3D earth to have such an easy life.
Earth is like
a weight training room…resistance all around, the quickest way to bulk
up. Too little resistance, and progress is slow. Too much resistance,
and progress is impossible. The purpose of true Reality Creation
is to remove unnecessary weights so that resistance is just right.
example of an imposed limit is that of physicality, including all its
laws which are nicely described in the laws of physics. Negative forces
abuse physics through their technology, which can result in
manipulations so cunning that most people cannot even fathom their
speaking, then, there are indeed limits.
What you must
do to surpass these limits determines how objective they are. Illusory
limits are mainly psychological, and getting rid of them will do wonders
enough in one’s life. No limits are insurmountable, it is just that some
limits are damn hard to break through.
When YCYOR says “there are
no limits”, it accurately states that illusory limits are not real.
However, one would be a fool to think that the phrase applies to all types
of limits, that imposed or practical limits are as easily bypassed as
illusory ones. Some extreme forms of YCYOR do incorporate this idea, and
its followers think that reality is so much a function of their belief
that they need merely believe they are invincible, and so they become it.
Never mind that
they lack the spiritual evolution and awareness to do so, and are
attempting to violate their own Higher freewill. They think they can exist
in a world without limits just by changing their 3D mind or subconsciously
programming themselves through visualization or self-hypnosis. While this
does work great to rid oneself of illusory limits, other limits
Now, there are cases of people who can levitate, teleport,
bend spoons, and so on. Mind is definitely capable of bypassing the laws
of nature. We hold a contract with physicality, which states that we
collectively agree to participate by its rules. Our world or imposed
limits is indeed held up by self-imposed limits, but to break through
these limits, one must be at the same level that one created the limit to
For example, if you impose upon yourself a limit made
on the subconscious level through some trauma followed by autosuggestion,
then it is on that subconscious level which the limit must be removed. If
it is the Higher Self that holds the agreement with physicality, then it
is the Higher Self which can break that contract.
distinction be made, however, that using technology to levitate, teleport,
and time travel is a way of manipulating physicality itself, not our
It is clearly unwise to think that you can, at a
lower state of consciousness, void the limit created and imposed from a
higher state of consciousness without actually going there. Going there is
often the lesson of the limit in the first place. Some of these imposed
limits can be forcedly surpassed through intense meditation, but it is a
way of short circuiting one’s own evolution for the gain of a few new
tricks. The tricks themselves are not “bad”, merely premature.
timing is right and they are well-earned, they will be put to good use
and aid one’s evolution.
Occult practitioners of the
black arts try to develop their psychic faculties without a
corresponding increase in beingness, which only results in their descent
further into the maw of the negative hierarchy.
For all these
reasons, while there are no limits as they can all be surpassed someday
and somehow, due to our present physical and mental natures, we cannot
break through all limits just yet. It is necessary to be aware of what
limits one is truly up against, and which ones can be changed or
Negative forces with lower freewill, or perhaps higher
negative forces who do not wish to violate freewill but rather coerce
their targets through deception for the purposes of consuming them fresh
and whole, use illusory limits to the fullest extent
Illusory limits are those we give power to, despite their
actual nonexistence. Nonexistent limits do not violate our freewill. If we
give them power and impose those limits upon ourselves, they were indeed
inspired by negative forces but actually implemented by us, and thus the
negative forces do not dirty their hands with our own freewill violations,
for there is no violation if we imposed it upon ourselves.
limits, such as physicality, can be used against us by negative forces as
well. If you are falsely accused of a crime, engineered so by clever
negative forces, and are consequently jailed, what keeps you behind bars
is the solidity of the walls and threat of apprehension and violence if
you try to escape. In this way, despite physicality being voluntarily
maintained by a higher aspect of your own consciousness, it is being used
by negative forces against you.
Your Higher Self does not sit idly
by, not noticing any of this. It allows it to happen to teach you a
lesson. Should the case arise where negative forces attempt to physically
harm you in such a way that no lesson is learned and many other future
lessons would be postponed, the Higher Self can intervene and re-arrange
the linear timeline so that negative forces fail. In this way, some people
are protected from harm despite massive targeting by negative forces.
the possibility that physicality itself can be used against you is reason
enough to actively use your knowledge and prepare for
Concerning illusory limits of the subconscious
nature, be aware that subconscious programs are actually surrogate
motivators. This means they are passive redirectors of your will, and can
in themselves open you up to undesirable probable futures. Before, it was
mentioned that struggle often accompanies spiritual evolution. Struggle
does not always mean pain, it simply means active application of one’s
will to progress and learn.
As an analogy,
rock climbing can be considered a struggle, but it is still fun for many
who do it as a sport. When it comes to spiritual evolution, painful
struggle is actually unnecessary, while fun struggle is the ideal way to
Psychologically painful struggle happens for one main
reason: the dissolution of old subconscious programs. Struggle itself is
an aspect of spiritual evolution, but the pain results from having to
uproot old programmed illusions that one has held near and dear all one’s
life. The less programmed one is with the old ways of viewing the world,
and the more inertia one has against change, the greater the pain
accompanying spiritual evolution. It is not a matter of struggle versus no
struggle, but painful struggle versus fun struggle.
Like a stuck
rudder, programs or surrogate motivators make it difficult to get one’s
“boat” traveling in the right direction. Moving forward anyway creates
friction, which eventually heats and dissolves the programs, but not
without causing some discomfort. Progressing without pain can only happen
in two ways: either you have already evolved to the approaching level and
are merely retracing your steps, or you are struggling with a fun
However, painful struggle can also be a sign that you are
venturing beyond the planned boundaries of your pre-incarnational
objectives and the recommendations of your Higher Self. This is most
evident if you feel like you are moving against the grand flow, things are
going terribly for you in life, it takes much willpower to succeed, and
you must often employ negative or STS tactics to do so.
STS is like sinking into quicksand. It is a struggle to stay afloat, and
even more of a struggle to get out. Your painful struggles in life are
always the results of errors committed or allowed by some part of you,
which placed you temporarily into a negative orientation that now requires
If you are painfully struggling for any reason other
than dissolving your subconscious programs or resolving karmic issues, it
is very likely that you are not acting in alignment with your Higher Self.
Like assembling flat-pack furniture, if you are struggling and things keep
turning out horribly, you are not following the instructions.
struggle is accompanied by a thrust or intense motivation, an inner glow
of joy and enthusiasm, and results in a hearty satisfaction. This is the
ideal way to evolve spiritually, and virtually guarantees that one is on
the right path, in alignment with one’s Higher Self. When in this “flow”,
events in life click into place perfectly. Once one is relatively free
from negative surrogate motivators, one is following the flow of the right
destiny current and can simply “let go” and have fun with life, struggling
but evolving in a positive manner.
Lack of struggle is equally
suspicious. Fun without challenge, without inner satisfaction, often comes
from surrogate motivators influencing one’s actions and perceptions. More
often than not, something like this is considered “fun” because it is a
lack of “pain”, be it social, physical, or psychological pain. For
example, if you are programmed with social expectations that drinking and
partying are key steps in securing one’s self-worth, and that not having a
bar life makes one lame and unaccepted, then one can squander away much of
life in a drunken stupor, blissfully thinking all is fun with this
Much of humanity is lost on a permanent
detour off their primary intended life path, due to these surrogate
motivators which have been grafted onto their minds from birth via clever
programming by negative forces through media, culture, religion, and
sometimes directly through abductions and mind control.
of these grafts is the first and best action one can take in one’s quest
for a limitless reality. This will accelerate one’s evolution, and soon
practical limits fall away until an evolutionary state is reached that is
equal to the state where such limits were imposed. Those limits then
dissolve as well.
Another trap of YCYOR and the New Age paradigm has to
do with “resolving issues” and “removing karmic debt” via
cheap gimmicks which only give a temporary illusion that things have been
fixed. They are merely patched over and ignored, all the while festering
beneath an inflated “happy” persona.
Resolving karma can
only happen through forgiveness that permeates deeply into one’s
subconscious. It is subconscious regrets and grudges that make us choose
to incarnate again with karmic life experiences to resolve them.
Hypnosis is one of the few methods that can resolve karma without
having to go through these experiences because this forgives the issues on
the subconscious level where they reside. All karma necessitates is the
learning of a lesson, not necessarily the experience of karmic events. If
such lessons can be learned under hypnosis, then all the
Nevertheless, there are those who ignore their issues
rather than confronting them, who try to act positively, think positively,
but are doing nothing to get rid of their surrogate motivators via an
active increase their awareness and utilization of knowledge. Rather than
learning a lesson, they would rather do some meditations, “clearing”
sessions, crystal work, or other methods to cover up the warning signs
that those lessons must be learned.
The way they
try to think and act is opposite of what they are on the inside, and this
conflict builds up a lot of anger and anguish. It is amazing how many
people, who claim to be love and light New Agers, are actually two-faced,
petty, flaky, and moping individuals.
They are an
example of the fact that there is no shortcut to learning.
“Evil is the absence of
A rock lacks the quality
of good. But it is not evil. So lacking good does not make something evil,
and evil therefore is not the absence of good. Evil, characterizing the
negative forces, is a force unto itself. It exists as an independent
though parasitic creation.
The sleeping half of the Creator, to
which all those on the negative path are evolving, lacks any and all
creativity. This is why matter itself, though conscious, has almost no
freewill and is thus characterized by physical laws which allow the
perfect prediction of all future states of such matter (not counting quantum effects, which arise
from the interface between the conscious and sleeping halves of the
Creator on a subatomic level).
If it can be
predicted, it can be controlled, and thus it has no freewill. The point
here is to emphasize that negative forces lack creativity. This is not to
say they are boring, but merely limited in what they can do. They are
always one step behind positive forces, because the latter have the upper
hand spiritually when it comes to metaphysical sovereignty and who gets to
The negative hierarchy, despite having its own
individuality, must exploit positive beings and consume their soul
energies because they themselves lack originality, creativity, and
negentropy, and use the creative soul energies of positive beings (which
such beings suckle from the Creator by virtue of their spiritual purity)
to counteract the entropic nature of their own evolution. A clock, once
wound, will wind down again unless more energy is put into the system.
Negative forces need the creative energy to keep up what they are doing,
otherwise they will decay.
So evil is not the absence of good
because it has its own identity and freewill, though it does depend
upon good for its survival because it is parasitic in nature.
is once again faulty in inferring that since “evil is the absence of
good”, evil can be negated just by putting some good in its place. An evil
person simply lacks good, according to this idea, and so being good to
that person and bombing him with love and light will fill him up with
goodness and thus erase the evil, much like annihilating a hole in the
ground by filling it with dirt.
Of course, in
truth evil has its own solid
identity, and prefers to feed upon good, so YCYOR is the
perfect mechanism allowing them to do this.
“Nothing happens to you unless you
This is true, but the
part of you allowed it?
stand in the street and a truck is barreling toward you with no
intention of stopping, what will allow it or prevent it from running
Is it the
part of you that is reading this right now, who decides things as
mundane as picking up a newspaper or making some toast, or is it the
part of you considered the Higher Self?
is something like the latter.
That is, unless
you have personally evolved in this body to a state identical with your
Higher Self, in which case reality becomes plastic to you since then you
can break the contract with physicality. And do not let YCYOR fool you
into thinking you are by default functionally identical with your Higher
Self, unless you can stop bullets in mid air like Neo at the end of The Matrix.
only allow/prevent things that have less freewill than you. And then, only
with proper awareness to direct your will in the right direction.
Depending on your level of evolution, these allowances or preventions can
range from stopping attacks from lower negative entities, to influencing
whether or not you get pulled over by a cop this weekend, or whether your
car makes it through without a breakdown on a road trip. These things
involve situations with elements that have less freewill than you do, and
therefore you can influence them. You are directing your influences
downward on the spiritual hierarchy, and that is absolutely fine by all
While most everything that happens to you has been
allowed at some level or other, there are exceptions. There exist times
when, through the leverage of your ego-level freewill, you take
actions yourself which mess things up. One example is suicide. If you
commit suicide, the Higher Self will not reinsert you in a corrected
timeline where it did not happen. It can make it more difficult to carry
out, however, to get you to think twice about your decision. Examples
include a gun jamming, or rope breaking, etc…
In this case,
it was allowed to happen, but by you personally, not your Higher
When a negative entity more powerful than you attacks, this
is allowed by the Higher Self because nothing negative that can harm you
exists on an equal or greater level than the Higher Self. It therefore has
jurisdiction and authority to control and correct all that happens beneath
it, though the Higher Self has the wisdom and knowledge to do this with
When an event happens, be it an attack, an
accident, a synchronicity, or something
pleasurable, most likely it happened for a reason. It would be wise to
reflect upon possible meanings and extract the lessons as efficiently as
possible. If not, the lesson may be introduced again and more unjustified
pain introduced. The reason may be as simple as that an attack happened
because it could. The lesson would then be to ensure than it cannot
The preceding half of this article listed and
described the faults of YCYOR. Numerous as these faults are, the idea of
“reality creation” is based upon much truth. One must be careful not to
throw out the baby with the bathwater, to discard the facts because of
errors in their interpretation.
Just because YCYOR is
dangerous, not all variations of reality creation are necessarily
false. It does not mean that reality is so objective that our thoughts,
feelings, and beliefs have no effect upon it, that reality is nothing more
than harsh struggle for survival by tooth and claw. Manifestation and
requesting are real tools available to you, that if used properly and
wisely, can make your life as easy as it should be.
What it all
comes down to is the following:
in this life to learn a certain set of pre-arranged lessons. Through
synchronicity, your Higher Self guides the flow of your life on an
archetypal level to introduce these lessons when you are ready to learn
them. It is up to you, via your freewill, to determine how you turn
these archetypal scripts into concrete experiences. You choose how you
learn your lessons, the easy way based on awareness, or the hard way
based on ignorance.
circumstances, you always learn these lessons the easiest way, which is a
way most closely aligned with the mindset of the Higher Self, a virtuous
spiritual position endowed with awareness and discernment.
there is much possibility for going astray. Because you have freewill, you
can commit “errors”. Even worse, negative forces exist to trick and
manipulate you into straying as far from your life path as possible. There
is no wrong path through life, as all lead to you learning the same
lessons in the end. Nevertheless, the farther you stray from the easiest
path, the more lengthy, convoluted, and painful the path toward learning
that particular lesson.
Thus, for every given lesson, you
choose the degree of painful suffering necessary to learn it. If you
choose with discernment, no suffering is necessary.
ignorant you are, the more painful your struggle. Pain, anguish, and
suffering out of ignorance are what negative forces feed upon. They have a
vested interest in manipulating you into making ignorant choices. Instead
of going home on a clear and straight highway, they trick you into taking
a long detour with many tollbooths along the way.
The proper use of
manifestation and requesting is to help you learn your lessons as easily
as possible. Because learning lessons is all that matters, there is no
virtue in choosing the most painful struggle toward achieving them. That
is actually a sign of ignorance. Ideally, learning them should be
fun, and if you are aware and make good use of what knowledge you have
attained, learning will indeed be fun.
Not all lessons must be
experienced with pain, because it is obvious that clever people can learn
from the mistakes of others. This arises from the concept that, in truth,
we are all “one” on a fundamental soul level, and learning from the
mistakes of others is an action that illustrates one’s correct
understanding of this principle. Always having to experience something
negative for oneself is a sign that one is separate, alone, and more
individuated than one truly is.
The price of
that ignorance is having to suffer through a painful experience.
Experience is a means to an end of learning a lesson. Those who make
experience the end goal are going down the negative path.
two ways to end the pain of an unnecessarily arduous path. One either
fights to get back on track (such as completing karmic issues or
eradicating subconscious programs), or one ignores the pain and continues
on the detour thinking all is fine. The latter path is one advocated by
YCYOR, where serious problems are ignored rather than confronted and
If you have made a bad choice in life and are presently
painfully struggling because of this choice, the only thing you can do is
stop straying even more; you must grit your teeth and gradually move
forward in the right direction. It may be difficult to do so, but going
forward with a commitment to awareness and discernment is the only
Those on the negative path are ones who have
chosen the detour, the path of separation, and have accepted the resulting
struggle as a way of life. Rather than getting back on track, they toughen
themselves to face the pain, and make an industry out of pulling other
beings off track and into the wilderness to be fed upon. Their
subjectivity fools them into thinking that their fantasy interpretations
of reality are objective.
Manifestation and requesting are methods
at your disposal to help you stay on smooth road, or to help you to return
if you have strayed. Once you are on that road, you must still move
forward. Manifesting and requesting are auxiliary methods to accompany the
main thrust of your existence which consists of actively using knowledge
to evolve and gather more knowledge, to change your environment which
helps other beings evolve as well.
and requesting cannot be relied upon alone, but they should also not be
manifesting and requesting in conjunction with initiative and action on
your part is the quickest way to learning the lessons you came here to
learn. Manifesting is how you use your metaphysical abilities to
synchronistically influence components of your reality, including the
lower freewill beings in it, to keep your life from being unnecessarily
how you allow higher forces in your network to watch over you and guide
you toward what is best for your evolution and do things that you simply
cannot do because of your practical limits.
protection, and ease acquired from these two methods merely clear the path
through life, but you must still make the effort (fun struggle) to
progress and move forward through it. This is why manifesting and
requesting (two components to reality creation) comprise only half
of proper living. The other half is personal effort and
YCYOR promotes the idea that these two things are
sufficient to create everything one needs, that no effort at all is
necessary. Its followers become armchair experiencers. Like spectators of
television football games, they may be watching exercise happen, but they
themselves become increasingly out of shape. Doing reality creation
without putting forth personal effort leads to an analogous situation,
Here is an example of the balanced
application of reality creation principles with personal
Let us say
you wish to get a better job. Just manifesting and requesting alone will
often not be enough to make this happen, if you do not make personal
effort to send out resumes and go to interviews. Although possible, it
is very unlikely that you can simply sit at home next to the phone and
expect a company to call you out of the blue and offer you the job you
want. In addition to reality creation, personal effort is absolutely
necessary to get results.
On the other hand, consider the
possibility that you are too skeptical or proud to even try proper
reality creation. In this case, you can send out resumes and go to
interviews, but you will find that your “luck” is absent. You must apply
a great amount of effort to secure that better job.
If you do
reality creation, however, you will find your luck increasing and the
perfect job popping up after just a few tries. In that case, you would
have made enough personal effort to learn the required lesson, but
because you utilized reality creation, which is part of your toolbox in
life, you did not have to struggle with more pain than
however, your Higher Self ultimately decides what is best for you. If your
effort at Reality Creation is in conflict with your Higher Self’s
judgment, you will not succeed in getting what you want. Often you will
later find that what you wanted would have really been a bad idea had you
To clarify, just the right amount of personal effort is
synonymous with fun struggle. More personal effort than necessary is
defined as painful struggle in this article. Struggle or effort is
necessary for spiritual evolution. Such effort is optional when you have
already learned a particular lesson but are temporarily handicapped due to
amnesia of that lesson. Thus, some people can do well with reality
creation and not need to apply as much personal effort as others who
require that effort to evolve. Reality creation works best for those who
are most highly evolved, who do not need to learn those lessons from
YCYOR makes people think they need less personal effort to
get through life than they really do. Illusory limits make people think
they need more personal effort. Both are traps designed by negative forces to make their
targets either easier to prey upon, or more productive energy
But remember, as far as manifesting is concerned, you
can influence reality when it does not violate anyone’s freewill.
Also remember that freewill cannot be violated if it is not being
utilized, and this fact alone allows one to create stupendous synchronicities that incur no
spiritual detriment, just by manifesting one’s virtuous desires. So you do
not need to be “highly evolved” (whatever that means to you), just more
evolved than the components of reality you need changed to fulfill your
A mundane example is getting a good parking spot at
the super market. You can manifest that reality, and most often it will
materialize. What happens is that everyone else in the parking lot is too
dazed to realize that they can do the same, and they will either miss that
good spot “reserved” for you, or else someone will pull out just when you
need it. They will pull out at the right moment because their behavior was
influenced by your attempted manifestation to create that synchronous
timing. That they pulled out at that precise moment does not violate their
freewill, either because the act is too trivial, or because they were too
unaware to behave otherwise.
Awareness is what anchors
your freewill to a particular thing.
If you do not
have awareness of something, your freewill does not claim it, and it
therefore becomes easily malleable by forces who cannot or choose not to
violate your freewill.
four possibilities illustrate the “rule” of this principle:
are aware of something no one else is aware of, you can change it
easily by manifestation techniques, declaration of your intent, and
direct physical action. Because no one else is aware of it, your
change of this element of your (and their) reality does not violate
their freewill. The only resistance you may encounter in this case is
non-allowance by your Higher Self who may see some changes you are
attempting to manifest, as detrimental to your learning curriculum.
are aware of something that others are aware of as well, a potential
tug of war between opposing freewill may occur. Who wins depends on
who had the greater amount of freewill and the knowledge to utilize
it. Should you have tremendous amounts of freewill, or else are no
longer bound to the realities of others, your own reality becomes
easily and directly changeable by you, as easily as is done in a lucid
dream. But do not be fooled into thinking you are necessarily at that
are not aware of something that no other humans are aware of either,
then that portion of your environment becomes fluid, much like an
unobserved particle becomes a wave function, an enfolded hologram.
These elements of your environment are most easily changed by beings
who are aware of it, but who cannot or choose not to violate your
freewill otherwise. Because you and no one else is aware of it, no
freewill anchors that element of reality, and it is free for
alteration by lower beings or respectful higher
are not aware of something, but another human or entity is indeed
aware, then that portion of your reality coupled to theirs is easily
altered by them, for such an alteration does not violate your freewill
since you did not anchor it to that changeable
possibilities follow from the laws of freewill and how we create our
reality in concert with others. These possibilities also follow from the
macroscopic consequences of quantum mechanical laws.
Schroedinger’s Cat, a classic thought experiment
dealing of quantum mechanics, illustrates these principles, though given a
few corrections to the experiment.
The cat, which
at any moment may be dead or alive, is physically shielded inside a box
through which the scientists can gather no data to determine whether it
is, in fact, dead or alive. In truth, it is not necessarily lack of
physical perception that makes reality fluid, that allows the cat to be in
a wave state of both dead and alive possibilities, but rather lack of
conscious awareness of that element.
staring at the box, wondering if the cat is dead or alive, are influencing
and objectifying the state of the cat because despite not being able to
see into the box, their consciousness is still directed toward it, they
are still aware of the experiment and thus influence it. Consciousness of
the cat aside, if the scientists went out to lunch and forgot about the
experiment, and no one else in the world was thinking about the experiment
either, then is the cat indeed in a wave state including both
But the moment
anyone focuses their attention on the experiment, whether they know the
cat’s state or not, the experiment reverts to a non-wave state.
Therefore, when it comes to the fluid nature of elements in one’s
own reality, it is not enough to merely close one’s eyes, but actually
disengage one’s freewill from it by entirely forgetting about that
element. This frees it up for influence by other forces.
less aware and alert you are, the more malleable or fluid your reality is
to other beings who wish to change it without violating your freewill.
Having awareness of something locks it down, then only alterable by direct
physical action, or only by metaphysical action on the part of beings with
more freewill than you who wisely override your lockdown of that element
of reality to ensure your learning lessons flow in smooth sequence.
Therefore, fluidity of your reality is not necessarily
detrimental, for most of reality creation requires such fluidity before
reality can be reshuffled into what you demand or request. The trick is in
becoming aware of all possible changes (locking them down to prevent
influence from lower negative forces), and then stating your request
specifically and honestly, which opens up one of those possibilities to
fluidity. If your request is specific enough, lower negative forces cannot
take advantage of that fluidity because it only flows in a direction that
is as you specified, without loopholes or opportunity for negative
It is important to note that if you anchor your freewill
to an element of “reality” that does not actually exist, but was
artificially created by negative forces, then the creator of that
artificial element essentially controls you through that anchor. These
artificial reality elements can consist of false paradigms, false
perceptions, subjective illusions, and so on.
thing to realize is that when you do reality creation, unless it is in the
form of manifesting which influences the behavior of lower evolved beings,
reality transforms only because something higher than your present state
of consciousness made it change.
Reality creation, in the form of
requesting, changes reality indirectly via a higher force. This higher
force often makes it clear to you that you were not the creator of that
change, merely its requester. How does it do so? By fulfilling the request
in such a way slightly different from the way you requested it.
The synchronicities created to
fulfill your request often come as surprises, in a way you did not
The primary reason for this is to prove that you, the
ego-level consciousness, are not complete master of your reality.
The secondary reason behind surprising synchronicities is that
synchronicities in general happen most easily when that aspect of reality
is fluid; it is fluid because you are unaware of it, which in turn leads
to its surprising nature when the requested change materializes. If you
make a request, then keep expecting it to materialize, never allowing that
possibility to become fluid due to your constant obsessing and lack of
faith whether it happens or not, if your request is indeed to be
fulfilled, it must happen through elements of your reality that are still
fluid, not locked down by your constant expecting, and thus consist of
elements you are not aware of, which will seem surprising when they create
a given synchronicity.
This leads to the core issue of how reality
works and how synchronicities happen. What we know to be physical reality
is nothing but a shared dream maintained by the collective consciousness
of all who participate in this reality. The collective consciousness is
bound via a central coordinating mechanism that may be called the Grand
Matrix of physicality.
physical universe exist minor matrices, including that overlaying the
earth, known as the earth grid. This is a local
mechanism interfacing with the collective consciousness of humanity to
maintain reality on earth as we know it. Like Einstein said,
reality is illusion, albeit a persistent one. Its persistence makes
it objective for all practical purposes, but its illusory nature makes it
malleable enough to be influenced by our thoughts, feelings, and
Our reality consists not only of the present state of
things, but our perceived past as well. The sum of our present and past
states of recorded personal existence comprise a particular timeline.
We are conditioned to accept that the past is written in stone,
and are divided over whether the future is fated, or if it is open. In
truth, it is open because we have freewill to change it, or rather, choose
which future we manifest by our actions and metaphysical
Those who think the future is alterable are comfortable
with the idea of shifting through probable futures, but most are bothered
by the idea of a shifting past. In actuality, the liquidity of the future
is exactly the same as liquidity of the past. Causality only
applies within timelines, and can be thrown out the window if you move
between timelines and have your memories (and anything that records the
past) rearranged in the process.
Linear time, the idea that our
past is set and future yet to come, is all an illusion. Linear time is a
product of our minds, a limited interpretation of the way time actually
functions. It is not time that moves past us while we watch, but our
consciousness which moves through various timelines and experiences.
Everything physical, in all its manifestations and possibilities, has
already been created and exists as a static hologram.
What has not
been created yet is the world path we freely take through these
possibilities, which particular experiences we choose, and what paths we
take in learning a particular lesson. All probable futures have been
created, but which of those futures we choose to move into is
All this is not to say that we are hopelessly lost due to the
fickle nature of our past and instability of our memories, because changes
to the linear past obey the same laws as changes to the present or future,
which mean respecting freewill. Manifesting and requesting things which
materialize in one’s future work best when they do not violate freewill,
and changes to the past follow the same rule.
In other words,
changes to fluid elements in reality does not only mean changes to present
reality, but shifts in an entire timeline, past and present.
as negative entities with lower freewill cannot successfully attack you
and manipulate your future unless you allow them or have a lapse in
awareness, so are they barred from altering your past unless similar
conditions exist. This is because past and future are identically frayed.
forces, most existing in a hyperdimensional state beyond
linear time, do not concern themselves with causality, with “going back in
time” and changing key events, but rather merging an alternate timeline
(or dimension) with your current one, which is identical to pulling all of
mankind on to that alternate timeline. Whether timelines are merged into
yours, or whether you and mankind are pulled into the alternate timeline
makes no difference, for both are the same concept.
To these hyperdimensional negative
forces, messing with your timeline is simply a matter of
moving you and all connected to you spatially across timelines into
another, if they can. Because of your freewill and higher protection, they
are very limited in where they can move you, or which timelines they can
merge with yours. This is just another way of saying that they are limited
in what elements of your reality (which includes recorded past and present
circumstances) they can change.
All their timeline manipulations
only affect linear time. Linear time is the progression of physical events
which are in actuality already created and remain a static hologram of
quasi- infinite possibilities. Linear time is like the “time” of a movie
or audio CD, already recorded, but selectively playable. Actual time
consists of one’s progression of choices among these possibilities of
experience, and is measured not in tics of seconds, but in demarcations of
The timeline manipulations cannot affect
your freewill path through the spatial time plane unless that is what you
choose, though making a choice difficult for someone is not a freewill
violation if it does not keeping him from making that
Choosing, the core process engendered by freewill, is
necessary to complete learning lessons in life. With choice denied,
freewill is violated, and a lesson is delayed indefinitely. Thus, while
negative forces with lower freewill cannot deny you choices, they can bias
them toward one most benefiting to their agenda. For them, it is a gamble.
If they win,
you will make a foolish choice because you gave in to negative principles
such as hatred, laziness, greed, lust, or fear. In that case, they get
some of your energy, a partial conversion to their polarity, and the
temporary removal of a potential threat to their agenda. If you win,
however, the more difficult they biased your choices, the greater and
quicker your spiritual evolution, and the more invulnerable
you become to further manipulation.
the ultimate purpose of negative forces, which is to act as resistance for
those striving in a positive direction just as weights act as resistance
When it comes to timeline manipulations, negative
forces of lower freewill can only alter your timeline in a way that biases
your choices, that makes things more difficult for you. That is, unless
they possess time travel technology which works on physical principles you
agreed in the contract with physicality, in which your ego-level freewill
can indeed be violated.
Disregarding that possibility, these
changes will appear as negative synchronicities to you, also known
as bad luck. Your Higher Self does not create bad synchronicities
for you, it merely opens the gates and allows a few negative forces to do
what they do best. The purpose of such bad luck is to alert you that a
change in belief, perception, thought, feeling, and action are necessary.
change them toward a more negative polarity and carnally fight through
them, or whether you follow a positive polarity and proceed with wisdom,
discernment, and fun struggle, is entirely up to you. Your goal is to
learn the lesson and apply it, so that the particular timeline
manipulation and resultant negative synchronicity does not happen again.
Remember, when implemented by lower negative forces, it happened only
because you were not aware of it, which provided an unguarded bridge into
your reality. Become aware to passively protect, and utilize knowledge to
So far the article has concerned theory,
discussing why YCYOR (You Create Your Own Reality) fails, and why
true Reality Creation works.
My goal is to inform you about
the importance of using all your life tools and help opportunities, to be
careful about assessing what you are truly capable of, and to proceed in
life with awareness, wisdom, and discernment. Your learning lessons should
be as fun and easy as possible.
To continue, the subject of
“positive thinking” needs to be clarified. The problem with New
Age’s version of positive thinking is that it comes at the expense of
awareness, for it is a product of pure ignorance and denial.
On a scale of
awareness, there are two places where one feels blissful:
the point of no awareness, in which one wallows in ignorant bliss,
total awareness, where one understands that there is nothing to worry
about since all preparations have been made and lessons learned.
thinking urges one to be at the bottom of the awareness scale,
while true Reality Creation requires having full
True positive thinking is not denial or
ignorance of the negative, but full awareness and understanding of how to
deal with the negative. New Age positive thinking is merely a false fix,
an attempt to suppress internal pressure and misery which arise because of
fundamental misperceptions due to lack of awareness. If a pressure cooker
is about to explode, it is better to turn off the heat than press down
harder on the lid. With true positive thinking, your awareness fosters
correct perceptions, which lead to the correct emotions and actions to
match a given situation.
emotions, and actions are a balanced trinity when awareness is sufficient.
The less awareness one has, the more unbalanced the trinity, with
resultant detrimental effects which benefit negative forces. Unbalanced
perceptions make it easier for your reality and timeline to be
manipulated, for attacks to happen through gaps in your awareness.
Unbalanced actions lead to self-sabotage, a missed opportunity to take
active protection. Unbalanced emotions lead to either mechanization of the
soul, or an overflow of emotional energy which are lapped up by negative
forces who feed upon it.
Gaining awareness and utilizing knowledge
balances perceptions, emotions, and actions, solving all these problems.
For example, we often mistakenly assume that others act upon motivations
that are identical to our own. Given the same circumstance, it seems we
would behave the same. In reality, there is more to behavior than
We differ in
our individual experiences, what programs we have assimilated into our
neural circuits, our genetic predispositions, what we have learned, our
emotional learning path, and the orientation and degree of sophistication
of our soul development. Often it is our emotional learning path that
determines, via acausal principles and shuffling of the timeline, what
circumstances we are born into and encounter throughout life; this
complicates the “nature vs. nurture” dichotomy concerning human
Nevertheless, the assumption that everyone is
functionally equal leads to much emotional anguish when we fail to
reconcile their behavior with our own. A paradox arises because reality
conflicts with our assumptions, and our attempts to solve the paradox
without further awareness only puts our hearts through the perpetual
grinding stone. In such cases, our perceptions are skewed. For instance,
we may mistakenly see a virtually soulless person as having a heart, and
then attempt to rationalize how he could do such horrendous things if we
ourselves could never commit such cruelty.
False positive thinking
would consist of ignoring the paradox rather than solving it. Changing our
perceptions via ignorance or awareness may both lead to emotional
tranquility, but these comprise only 2/3 of the trinity. The third
element, action, differs between the two cases.
ignore the paradox will be incapable of taking appropriate action
to rectify the source of their problem.
But were we to
gain knowledge about the true nature of this person, after necessary
contemplation and discernment we may recognize his true nature. If he has
no soul, for example, we would realize that he therefore has no empathy.
In other cases, the person may have a different soul orientation from our
own, different experiences, or differences in any of the other numerous
physical, psychological, and metaphysical variables that bias freewill and
contribute toward human behavior.
Being open to
the idea that such differences exists prevents us from overlooking them.
Therefore, in such cases we neither take offense nor continue to
perpetuate the paradox. This corrects our perceptions, and we may then
behave in an appropriate manner without spilling emotional
If any single element, be it perceptions, actions, or
feelings do not match and balance the others, you will be fed upon,
exploited, controlled, and sometimes even sabotaged. For example, if you
understand the nature of psychopaths and do not shed tears for their
contrived dramas or get into rage over their intentional provocations, but
neglect to take any action to stop them from doing so, they will just
hammer away at you and feed off you in other ways.
That is because
despite your perceptions and feelings being appropriate, lack of action
creates the imbalancing factor. Likewise, if you have balanced perceptions
and take appropriate action, but your feelings are in turmoil, these
etheric vampires stick around to soak up the energy. All elements of the
trinity must be in balance.
More generally, correct positive
thinking means viewing life from an aware perspective, and
thinking/acting/feeling in a manner consistent with this new
understanding. The more aware you are, the higher your evolution, and
if you are evolving toward a positive polarity, the more resonant you
become with your Higher Self. Feeling good emotions is secondary to
becoming more aware and acting upon that awareness.
For some New
Agers, feeling good emotions is the primary goal, and actions or
awareness is often neglected. Unlike this faulty type of positive
thinking, the good emotions that result from correct positive thinking
happen because of a true understanding of the situation. Without taking
action, preparation is avoided, and ignorant bliss becomes short lived. By
taking action, preparation is made, and attacks are prevented or
It is true that you attract what you focus upon. This
does not mean that you can prevent what you ignore, however. Attraction of
probable futures (or merging of alternate timelines), via manifesting or
requesting, does not “prevent” anything, it merely increases the
probability of that focused possibility. Prevention requires not
ignorance, but the active utilization of knowledge.
How can you
know if thinking positively about something is an act of denial or one of
cannot. The best course of action is to think positively regardless, but
always act upon your awareness and do what you have to do, be it
prevention, standing up to an imposing force, or actively deconstructing
illusory limits. In this way, you attract positive experiences, but also
take physical measures to prevent negative situations. The latter is
missing from YCYOR, which leaves its followers very vulnerable to
One rule of thumb that works well for me goes as follows:
Let the heart be your compass and intellect be your
flashlight. The heart shows you where to go, the intellect shows you
where you’re stepping.
Your Higher Self does not fear anything, nor
does it have hatred, jealousy, vengeance, lust, or greed. These emotions,
among others, are to be avoided, but not suppressed. If you
have to suppress them, this means you are merely patching over faults in
your perceptions rather than increasing your awareness.
awareness by observing, thinking, contemplating,
analyzing, theorizing, testing, feeling, and
You will know
that your positive emotions match your perceptions and awareness if it
thrusts you into taking action that cuts off the source of an annoyance at
its root, that gets you to change your reality via active
Due to illusory limits and programmed
misperceptions, most of us have a more negative outlook on life than
necessary. A negative outlook is one that makes us feel we have more
limits than we actually do.
When we have negative emotions, they
consist of two parts: one subjective half induced by illusory limits, and
the other objective half induced by provocations in the environment. To
solve the problem of a negative emotion, change must take place both
internally and externally. Internally, we must dissolve subjective
emotions based on limited awareness by filling in perceptual holes with
true understanding. Externally, we cut off the source of an annoyance by
taking action based on discernment.
For example, if a person at
work pushes your buttons all the time, not only must first you understand
his true nature and thus diffuse the subjective half of the negative
emotions you would otherwise generate, but you must also take action and
stand up to him or do whatever is necessary to get him to stop attacking
you, which then removes the other objective half of your negative emotions
by cutting off its external source or removing oneself from it.
is not enough to only extinguish subjective emotions, because objective
negative emotions remain unsolved and not acted upon. Thus, the external
provocation remains. Ignoring objective emotions and failing to take well
planned action leads to a “turn the other cheek” attitude, a submission to
violence, and one remains a victim.
Victimhood is not only a
state of mind, but a state of inaction. There are some who think that
merely changing one’s mentality removes them from victimhood. Plenty of
talk exists about ridding oneself of “victim mentality”, but that is only
half of the solution. The other half is to rid oneself of “victim
behavior” by not allowing the predator to feed, exploit, or control
Although malleable, reality does have much objectivity,
which as already explained is a consequence of contracts one has made with
other beings and forces, contracts made at a level you cannot break
without evolving to that level or requesting your Higher Self to make such
exceptions. Because of the objectivity of reality, changing your mentality
is not always enough to solve a problem; action is often needed. The
proportion of mental to physical change required depends on the situation,
But to deny the objective component of such an
experience is sheer ignorance, like in the case of a prisoner who thinks
he is free just because he changes his mentality and tries to enjoy being
imprisoned. Besides, is that not one goal of negative forces in their
quest to manipulate us, to get us to love our prison or perhaps deny that
we even exist in one? This is another trap of YCYOR, to make us believe
our reality is more subjective than it truly is. In truth, our prison is
both psychological and physical, internal and external, and breaking out
requires changes in both.
When it comes to organic portals, to apply the
preceding principles you must first dissolve all subjective negative
emotions within yourself by understanding what is really going on, and
only then should you take action to remove the rest of the annoyance. If
you attempt to remove an organic portal without first changing your
perceptions and diffusing the psychologically induced component of your
emotional response, the organic portal will simply feed off of you.
their behavior will not change because your over-emotional attempt to
tell them off actually gets them off.
By first understanding
the situation, what emotions you do have left are objective, righteous,
and in alignment with your perceptions; these, the organic portal cannot
feed upon. By taking action without submitting food, the organic portal
has no choice but to retreat and find someone else to feed on.
benefits of true Reality Creation, when used in conjunction with
personal effort and objective action, should be apparent by now.
of this article describes two ways of how to apply Reality Creation.
Once again, when it comes to manifesting, you
can best influence elements of your reality that you have already evolved
beyond, whose associated lessons you have learned, and who exist in a
lower frequency of awareness than you. The less evolved and aware you are,
the more you stay slave to your physical reality, and the more you might
tend to rely upon technology to manipulate it into obeying your
If evolved, you are entrusted with the ability to change
lower elements by virtue of your relative higher awareness and
discernment. If you try to manifest something for negative reasons, either
your attempt will fail due to lack of awareness which generated the
negativity, or else you will tarnish your spiritual track record and
impose upon yourself some karma. Karma is just a check list of things one
needs to experience to learn.
Manifestation requires utilization
of one’s freewill, the active employment of will,
intent, and focus.
attempts at manifestation tend to fail, unless they are of an extremely
ritualistic and symbolic nature which actually comprises a way of
hacking into reality.
Ritual and magic is a type of
technology, a crutch that atrophies freewill and hitches one’s soul to
the negative hierarchy if used as an ends rather than a means to an
ends. It is recommended that one stay away from ritual and magic, for they
are not necessary, and tend to be detrimental methods of manipulating
higher forces irresponsibly.
Manifesting means changing your
reality without applying physical action. It is a facilitator of physical
action, not its replacement. The basis of manifesting involves using one’s
mind to create or seek out an alternate timeline, an alternate possibility
to the way things are now or will most likely go in short time. Present
reality and that alternate reality must be made identical in order for
manifested changes to materialize.
How exactly one goes about
doing this varies from person to person. What works for one might not
work for another. To discover what works for you, just think back to
all the times you actually got what you intended to manifest and what
state of mind you were in.
The following method and theory
describes my personal application of Reality Creation principles,
which may or may not be identical or similar to what works for you. Keep
in mind that these are no substitute for direct action, preparation, fun
struggle, or prevention. There merely aid these things, ridding one’s life
of unnecessary friction.
Here is the method and theory I use:
must be fully conscious to manifest something, which means planting
your mind firmly upon this point in space and time, becoming aware of
the here and now. This channels your will and energy into the
actual present reality within which you exist, rather than sloppily
diffusing it across random dimensions and moments as is typical of
daydreams or states of inattention. This energy will be used to bind
present reality to the one you intend to manifest.
maintaining this alertness of the present moment and location,
visualize what it is you intend to manifest. This creates an alternate
dimension, an assemblage of thought-forms, a way of seeking out
candidate timelines which match the intended manifestation. The best
fitting timelines are automatically selected, ones that accommodate
the freewill of everyone whose realities are coupled to
need to merge your visualized dimension or candidate timeline with
present reality. This is done by identifying both of them as being the
same thing, by intending and believing that what you visualized is
present reality. You use the feeling of full consciousness and
awareness of the present reality to empower the visualized reality.
They thus become bound together, and synchronicities arise to complete
first you consciously grab hold of the present reality by focusing on this
point in space and time, then construct or select an alternate reality by
visualizing the subject of your manifestation. You empower that
visualization with the feeling of presence gained from focusing upon the
present reality, and then fully bind the two by seeing them as identical.
can be abbreviated by skipping the first step, and simply placing full
focus and intent into the visualized reality. The purpose of the first
step is just to get a feel for “actuality”.
In other words,
what you want
specific you are in your demands, the more likely it will happen. This is
because manifestation requires the directing of will, and being specific
directs one’s will with precision. Being specific also shows use of
awareness, the accurate pinpointing of one’s demands rather than a blind
shot in the dark.
Whether manifesting is an act of wishful thinking
or the positive use of one’s abilities, depends on whether it aids
spiritual evolution, respects freewill, is demanded with full
consideration of truth and, is directed downward on the spiritual
hierarchy, and is even possible to achieve.
On the one hand, it can
be used for negative purposes and the control of others, or it can be used
for positive purposes such as protection from redundant attacks and
case may be, keep in mind that the method of manifestation is only
auxiliary, to be used for making things as easy as they should be, but
cannot be relied upon to actually thrust you through
This method is also known as prayer,
though it does not require kneeling or folding one’s hands. When
requesting something, you can direct it toward all positive and higher
aspects of your own consciousness, including your Higher Self, positive
entities who are more evolved than you, and the universe itself. The point
of requesting is to make use of the network you are part of, to allow
higher aspects of yourself to do things that you yourself cannot do
because of your limited evolution.
They will help
if they deem it a wise thing to do, if it does not hinder your spiritual
Unlike the process of manifesting, you are not sending
your will and energy outward to twist the arm of anyone or anything. You
are merely announcing your openness, making an earnest request for help
from higher positive sources, who normally respect your freewill and
therefore do not intervene unless you give them permission.
from higher forces is unlike influence from lower negative forces, who
absolutely cannot interfere unless you give them permission, which
unfortunately comes in more forms than mere verbal submission. Other forms
of permission included your contract with physicality, personal displays
of ignorance, and succumbing to subjective negative emotions.
the saying goes, “God helps those who help themselves”, and “ask
and ye shall receive”.
Reality must be
met halfway, and requests are only granted if one has first done
everything one can do. In other words, do all you can do, and if you
request, the rest will be taken care of.
requesting is merely an aid to living. Its best application is in
helping you get protection from things you cannot personally protect
We exist to learn and evolve. The nature of a
particular reality we operate within reveal how such lessons should best
be learned. This is because at some level, we choose the circumstances of
our lives to best facilitate our evolution. Evolution progresses most
efficiently when full use is made of all available resources, physical and
Attempting to evolve while adhering to a purely
physical paradigm results in unnecessary pain, friction, and interference.
Trying to evolve while only following a metaphysical perspective leads to
stagnation, vulnerability, and sloth. But combining both to create a
balanced paradigm and approach to life results in efficient learning and
evolving. We exist on earth for a reason, which is to learn and evolve by
both physical and metaphysical means, by transforming both ourselves and
our environment in accordance with divine structure.
environment without changing ourselves leads to irresponsibility and
refusal to learn, while changing ourselves without changing the
environment is a selfish act that defeats many people’s purpose for even
being here. This change of the environment is simply the physical effect
of a higher positive metaphysical cause, the creative influx of higher
energies which lead to personal actions which change the environment in a
way that facilitates the evolution of all.
oneself means personally evolving by gaining knowledge and awareness. The
purpose of physicality is to lock different beings into common dimensional
arenas of interaction, so they can evolve via that interaction. Thus, the
goal of physical existence is to personally evolve by helping others
evolve, no matter the polarity.
The objective nature of
our reality demands that it is not enough to change the world by merely
transforming our internal psychological and spiritual state. We do create
our own reality, but at a level beyond our total control at this level of
evolution, and thus there are some things we cannot change by merely
changing ourselves. These require utilization of knowledge, putting what
one has learned into practice.
Internal transformation and growth
by themselves only have a passive effect upon reality by setting up
synchronicities, passive protection, and other reality creation processes.
These can only do so much; they cannot do all.
The rest can be
achieved only through active efforts, which occur when internal
transformation guides one’s actions. When it comes to seeking to
materialize something positive, it is not enough to only think positively
and do reality creation, but to take action and make it happen. And
when it comes to protection, it is not enough to become aware of dangers
and request protection or intend that they keep away, but to get into
action and take preparatory or preventative measures.
creation facilitates action, but does not take its place.
YCYOR is a trap designed by negative forces to disarm its targets
for easier consumption, true Reality Creation provides metaphysical tools
which help one progress through one’s learning lessons as efficiently and
painlessly as possible.
and requesting are methods of true Reality Creation which make good
use of our position on the spiritual hierarchy between higher and lower
evolved beings and forces.