by Eve Frances Lorgen, MA
from AlienLoveBite Website
abductions extend beyond the physical medical exams and presupposed
"alien/human" genetic hybridization breeding programs as premised in
current UFO abduction literature. Alien orchestrated human bonding dramas
in numerous abduction cases suggest an alternative factor in understanding
the motives of the extraterrestrials’ interaction with humanity.
dramas consist of alien instigated, "staged" relationship manipulations,
emotional and sexual bonding arrangements between two targeted abductee
partners, often resulting in dramatic love obsessions in one or both
studies will be presented demonstrating the characteristic signs, symptoms
and patterns of alien directed relationship bondings and manipulations. An
alternative explanation and motivating factor for these alien orchestrated
dramas will be presented.
Alien abduction research has struggled to maintain
credibility in the UFO community and academic world. It’s paradoxical
nature and lack of concrete physical proof of extraterrestrials thrusts
UFO abduction researchers into taking greater efforts in empirical
methodologies. In essence–a hard line, nuts and bolts approach.
an abduction researcher of 15 years and from the perspective of female
intuition, I contend that most Ufologists and abduction researchers are so
adamant about the nuts and bolts--that they overlook the whole drama of
what is taking place in abductees' lives.
well-known abduction investigators, such as Bud Hopkins have
commented that many events within the abduction scenario appear to be
pre-arranged or staged events in the abductees’ lives. Some of these
staged events take place in and out of the classic abduction scene and
into the interpersonal lives of the abductee.
am referring to a variety of alien orchestrated human bonding dramas,
relationship manipulations and love obsessions that are carried out in the
abductee population mediated through the alien
Observe the Drama
angle of approach is better understood if you place yourself in the
position of a drama director: Imagine for a moment, watching a children's
puppet show. Raggedy Andy meets Raggedy Ann. They flip and flop to the
tune of an enigmatic love affair. Raggedy Andy courts his beloved Ann,
wooing her to that anticipated kiss. Raggedy Ann swooned into a spell of
romantic love. The curtain closes.
Next scene Raggedy Ann is
yearning for her newfound knight in shining armor. Raggedy Andy sees her,
but instead of running to embrace her, he turns around and walks off
stage, leaving Ann grieved with unrequited love.
Raggedy Andy and
Ann are not really puppets; they're real people who have had lifelong
alien encounters. The puppet masters are the aliens playing
the role of the proverbial Cupid and his arrow. Perhaps a puppet
show is a harsh analogy for the lives of some abductees caught in the
dramas of the alien matchmakers. But I adjure you to take a look from a
different perspective, one that asks different questions regarding the
modus operandi of the alien or extraterrestrial
Throughout my experience studying and counseling
abductees and "experiencers", I can confidently say that the alien
presence - or whoever is acting behind its image - exerts a heavy
influence on their lives, sometimes down to the lovers they meet and even
the very partners they choose to marry.
Alien Orchestrated Love Relationships
famous Brooklyn Bridge UFO abduction investigation brought to light
this rarely discussed aspect of alien directed human bonding arrangements
in some abductees' lives. Mr. Hopkins recent book, Witnessed
recounts the dramatic story
of Linda Cortile's UFO abduction in 1989 from an apartment window
in Manhattan, USA.
witnessed the extraordinary event, one of whom (Richard) Linda
Cortile had previously met in her abductions as a child and young
adult. These mutually shared encounters and dream like scenarios that took
place between Linda and Richard can be described as alien orchestrated
According to Hopkins, the bonding that Linda and
Richard experienced are not isolated incidents in the abductee population,
but are rare. Mr. Hopkins has observed the bonding dramas in 14 out of 650
cases, which accounts for roughly 2% of al his cases.
hypnotherapist and abductions researcher of 25 years, has observed that
many of these alien manipulated bonding dramas result in dramatic love
obsessions. Ms. Bartholic maintains that the bonding phenomenon
carried out by aliens occurs much more frequently than one would think. In
my own work, I’d say a rough one third have had either a bonding
experience or some kind of relationship manipulation with another person
(i.e., shared abductions or mutually shared dreams with the targeted
partner) within their abduction experiences.
include a classic physical type of abduction, a vivid, alien controlled or
"stage managed" dream or virtual reality scenario. The oversight of these
dramas result in a serious lack of understanding concerning the alien
intelligence and their motives for interacting with humanity.
bonding experiences exhibit a characteristic pattern and sequence of
events that goes something like this:
meets another abductee during one or more alien abductions or in very
vivid dreams. The couple may interact on a verbal or physical level to
initiate the bonding process. This can occur several times until a
strong emotional connection occurs. The nature of the bonding exercises
seems to be tailor-made to the individual.
interactions may or may not be consciously recalled by either partner.
Often, only one partner will remember the experience, while the other has
no memory or only a vague recall. When both partners meet in real life,
there is an instant sense of recognition and the couple may fall in
love. There are variations to the pattern and sequence of events, but
in most cases one partner falls in love more than the other and is left
In a few cases, a bonding with an alien being
or spirit guide progressed into a love obsession where it was discovered
later that the spirit guide turned out to be an alien masquerading as
Supernatural Events and
relationship between the two bonded individuals is such that both persons
are magnetically attracted to one another, often in unlikely situations.
The love relationship set-up may include a number of bizarre
synchronicities, vivid dreams, supernatural events and bonding exercises
during alien encounters.
orchestrated experiences are often intimate and sexual such that one or
the other develops an intense chemistry and love obsession with the
targeted partner. Oftentimes, either person is married to or has an
existing relationship with another mate. It makes no
The emotional, passionate and even telepathic
connection between the bonded pair is unlike normal relationships
(whatever normal is, anyway). Some have described it as the most
exhilarating love imaginable, to the point of total spiritual immersion or
indwelling with their "beloved." Then the inevitable happens. It's
absolutely devastating. The targeted love partner becomes "switched off"
and the love-struck other half becomes painfully unrequited.
off is described as an emotional and sexual disinterest in their once
"attractive" partner. The chosen partner may have an initial attraction or
even a strong love for the other, but then loses interest, often right
after an abduction or vivid dream. If one or the other abductee has a good
recall of their dreams and abduction memories, they may remember being
previously bonded together in one or more experiences.
abductees report spontaneous remote viewing images and visions of the
intended partner in such a way as to elicit emotions, such as jealousy,
obsessive love, yearning and grievous unrequited love pangs. The alien
manipulated love obsession process is akin to a carrot being dangled
just enough to get the obsessed lover into a constant cycle of love and
This can extend
from relationship to relationship and is emotionally
Characteristics, Signs and Symptoms of a Bonding Set
In most cases
the person had numerous alien encounters and/or UFO sightings. In a few
cases the targeted love bite partner did not realize him/herself to be
an abductee. For example one partner was said by the "alien handlers" to
have been abducted only for the purpose of the love bite relationship
with a particular female abductee.
of bonding scenarios in abductions, vivid dreams or virtual reality
described it as a "stage managed" dream where both partners are present
in a bedroom scene set up, where both partners are being given
telepathic messages to initiate contact, either on a verbal level or
more physical sexual level. Oftentimes either partner appears to be in a
tranced out or drugged state.
stage-managed dreams and/or abductions may have the partners in various
situations as if they are being tested for their emotional compatibility
or coerced into thinking that this person would make an ideal romantic
Supernatural Events and Synchronicities
Uncoincidental coincidences and psychic flashes concerning the
targeted partner. Meeting the person seems to be set up in a
supernatural way such that the couple may believe their eventual union
to be divinely arranged. A match made in heaven.
meeting of the pre-bonded partner may set off a series of de ja
vu memories, flashback memories of previous abductions or dream
related bondings. Some have even described it as a "body memory" of
having made love to that person before. One or both partners have a
strong sense of having known the person before, as if they knew them all
their lives or a strong soul connection.
and supernatural phenomena increases during the love bite
include empathic and even telepathic communication between the love bite
pair. Spontaneous remote viewing images and mutually shared dreams.
Other oddities may include the physical sensation of the partners
"touch" or energy field when the other partner is thinking or
fantasizing about them.
emotional, mental and even psychic connections with the bonded
partner–such that it sets up the conditions and desire for them to meet
one another. The connection can be so strong that they have described it
as a soul immersion in their beloved or literally having their souls
joined to one another.
A need for
one partner or the other to be with them to the point of becoming
the need to meet the person, even if it is in secret, and having to hear
the person’s voice on the phone, sometimes calling the person daily or
several times a day. Just hearing the targeted partner’s voice may have
a calming effect on the obsessed lover. Extreme anxiety may be felt if
the obsessed person cannot hear that person’s voice or see them somehow.
partner usually feels "love at first sight" and may lose all critical
reasoning ability. Some have described it as having the compulsion to
make sudden life decisions like moving away, changing jobs, getting
divorced or going out of their way to do things for the targeted person.
It has been
compared to being under a "love spell" whenever the obsessed person
hears their partner’s voice. They may go to great lengths to please the
person–doing anything for them, even giving up their life for them.
One or the
other partners becomes unplugged emotionally, leaving the other in a
state of unrequited love. Usually the obsessed lover becomes painfully
unrequited after the other partner loses interest, often right after an
abduction. It has been described as the psychic and emotional unplugging
of the targeted partner.
the obsessed lover still feels the strong psychic/emotional connection,
but the other "switched off" partner feels nothing, leaving the obsessed
lover grieving. Or the conditions for the bonded lovers are such that it
is impossible for them to consummate their strong love, such as both
partners being married to others or living a great distance away.
turmoil in the unrequited partners life
powerful emotions of love and grief may cause the person to be inspired
with creative energy, so that they write poetry, music, or any other art
form of creative inspiration. Conversely, the degree of emotional pain
may throw the unrequited lover into suicidal tendencies, mental and
physical exhaustion or illness.
mystical experiences may also be perceived during the time of increased
emotional processing or periods of prayer.
in alien encounters during periods of high drama and emotional
encounters may also increase if the person gets involved in alternative
sexual lifestyles or increased sexual activity–especially if it is with
the targeted love bite partner. Some have reported increases in
reptilian activity with methamphetamine or "crack
abductees have reported the bonding experience to take place more than
once, whereby they have been on both sides of the love bite; the
obsessed unrequited end, or the non-unrequited end. When they are on the
non-unrequited end, a platonic friendship may be engendered. Some
heterosexuals have suddenly become obsessed with a homosexual where a
drastic change in lifestyle occurs.
Case Studies of the Love
These cases have been
condensed for the sake of this paper and can be read in more depth in "The Love Bite"
The Case of
Sophia and Dave
33-year old married wife and mother was on a truth quest concerning her
lifelong alien encounters. Her husband George did not share her
spiritual interests or fascination with the UFO phenomena. George was
not an abductee and spent most of his time working long hours in his
career. His emotional coolness left Sophia lonely and wanting for a
companion who could understand. During Sophia’s alien encounters George
seemed to be "out cold" or deathly unconscious. In any event, he was
conveniently out of town or unavailable.
Two months before Sophia
became pregnant with her daughter, she had an alien encounter where a
telepathic message was given which stated:
couple’s daughter turned two, she would awake screaming in terror during
the night and hide in her bedroom closet, "away from the monsters." This
sometimes happened on the same nights Sophia had alien intruding
"dreams." During these periods, the daughter acted out with a lot of
anger especially towards her father. She also displayed an extreme
phobia to bugs.
In the midst of Sophia’s quest for an abduction
therapist, Sophia met an older man named Dave. Dave was also an abductee
and happily married. When the two met, Dave couldn’t stop staring at
Sophia as if he knew who she was. Both exchanged business cards after
briefly meeting at a UFO conference and continued to correspond by
Sophia then recalled "déjà vu" type dream memories of
having been with Dave before in very intimate detail, years before met.
She became empathetically connected to Dave and had several dreams of
him in which she was able to pick up real information on Dave’s personal
life that she had no way of knowing.
Dave started having
spontaneous remote-viewing images of Sophia, which she was able to
confirm as true to detail. Sophia also had remote viewing images of
Dave, and intuitively knew things about him and his family, which he
Sophia was in love with Dave and couldn’t
understand why she loved him so much, as Dave was many years older than
she and not really her type. The two experienced a strong, spiritual and
emotional connection with one another as if they had known each other
Sophia made plans to visit an abduction researcher and
hypnotist but was detracted from visiting the therapist following an
encounter akin to a virtual reality abduction involving military men.
She became ill after the threatening scenario and could not visit the
therapist. One of Sophia’s main reasons for seeing the therapist was due
to her overwhelming love obsession with Dave.
Sophia called Dave
often, initiating most of the communication. Soon, she started to get
the feeling he was trying to get rid of her, as he became indifferent
and uncaring. Even though Dave rarely called Sophia or reciprocated her
affections, she made excuses that he was just too busy and really would
be with her if he could. Wrong.
Dave was friendly and enjoyed
Sophia’s affections. But he was not in love with her. It didn’t seem to
matter to Sophia, as she thought that perhaps in the future they would
end up together. After all, the synchronicities, profound
love and bonding they experienced must have been divinely
Two years later and with the help of an understanding
abductions therapist, Sophia’s love obsession with Dave finally tapered
off. It had taken an enormous emotional and physical toll on Sophia and
at one point she became very ill. Part of the therapeutic process was
for Sophia and her husband George to undergo marital counseling,
bringing to light the awareness and effects of alien abductions, and
avoiding emotional isolation of one another.
Even though Sophia
and George’s marriage is still intact and improved, the love obsession
left Sophia very hurt. She loves her husband, yet admits she is not as
attracted to him anymore. Sophia’s consolation is her faith in
God and helping others.
The Case of Andrew
Andrew, a 32-year-old single male abductee has had
difficulty maintaining long term relationships with women. He fell in
love with a beautiful, affectionate woman named Sharon. Two months into
the romantic relationship a tall, tan, "Grey" alien and a shorter, dark
alien in a hooded cloak visited the sleeping couple. Andrew recalled the
first part of the abduction with the tan figure, but feelings of fear
and foreboding overcame him and the memory faded.
seriously distraught and emotionally distant the next morning. Later,
Andrew discovered that the cloaked, alien jabbed Sharon in the side with
a pointy, spear-like object as the entity warned her to stay away from
Andrew, leaving her petrified. Even though Sharon found a red triangular
mark on her body the next morning, she assumed it was just a horrible
Less than two weeks later, Sharon no longer had amorous
feelings for Andrew and seemed to be "switched off". She soon broke off
the relationship, leaving Andrew grief stricken, pining away for his
In the next couple of months the aliens revisited
Andrew. In this encounter he remembered graphic imagery of his
girlfriend Sharon being a "slut", having sexual relations with his best
friend, making it appear that his best friend cheated on him behind his
back. This invoked feelings of intense jealousy, rage and unrequited
love for his ex-girlfriend Sharon.
In another relationship of
Andrew’s the aliens again interfered. This particular girlfriend,
Ingrid, did not recall the alien visitation they both shared one night.
Andrew remembered the tall, tan aliens in the room and saw Ingrid
sitting up in bed, her face contorted in horror, frozen into a silent
scream. During this encounter, Andrew attempted to ask the alien,
you always interfering?"
seconds of his request, Andrew experienced intense pain and blacked
After the abduction, Ingrid abruptly changed her amicable
attitude from indifference to outright nastiness and the love affair
Andrew’s persistence at pressing the aliens for
an answer was met with a barrage of platitudes such as,
one of us. You are one of us. She wasn’t necessary, not part of it.
She doesn’t understand us." And the notorious, "You are not ready yet
After both of
these broken off relationships, the aliens projected into Andrew’s mind
seductive images of a beautiful, exotic Tahitian woman with children,
implying that this was Andrew’s future wife and kids. The understood
message, according to Andrew, was,
stick with us and so as we say, this is what we will give you."
happened. The aliens lied.
Today, Andrew is dating a nice woman
who is understanding of the alien abduction phenomena. They share a
mutually beneficial relationship. Andrew still distrusts the aliens, but
maintains a positive and hopeful attitude of overcoming his difficulties
and has even had some success in resisting
The Case of
Angelina and Steve
30-year-old wife and mother of three children has experienced multiple
abductions since childhood. Her mother and sisters have also reported
encounters with alien Greys at various times throughout their
In addition to Angelina’s encounters with Grey’s, a tall,
7- foot lizard man replete with tail, claw like hands and feet
and yellow snake slit eyes, repeatedly visits Angelina and rapes her.
Very often, the reptilian being will physically enter her bedroom at
night through an interdimensional portal or doorway and proceed to have
intercourse with her.
Angelina’s husband, Dick does not believe
his wife that she is getting abducted. He emotionally isolates her and
is sometimes abusive, even blaming Angelina for the
Angelina’s children have seen small reptilian
creatures in the house at night and even in the daytime on rare
occasions. One neighbor has also witnessed poltergeistic activity and
ghoulish looking beings in their home as well.
tries to tell her husband Dick about her encounters with the aliens he
becomes angry and jealous and blames his wife that she enjoys the
reptilian "sex" better than him. Angelina has been turned off to her
husband sexually and is repulsed by his human "pheromones" as if she has
developed a heightened sense of smell that others cannot discern. She
has conflicting feelings of guilt and shame because her body responds to
the sexual liaisons with the reptilian male to an unnatural degree–so
much so that she is completely turned off to her
Paradoxically, Angelina also reports frightening,
violent and unpleasant sexual assaults in her abductions as well, which
include the reptile being and also human military men. She has recalled
other abduction related procedures such as medical gynecological exams,
implant surgery, pregnancies and disappearing fetuses, non-pregnancy
related lactation and miscellaneous body marks such as puncture marks,
triangles, bruises, etc.
In one abduction memory, Angelina
recalled being in bed with a man who she was strongly attracted to. She
found herself in bed with a good-looking man in a non-descript white
hotel room, white bed covers and sheets. They are both nude and she
receives messages to make love to this man. They have sex and Angelina
recalls being told that she will meet this man named Steve in two
months. Angelina noticed that in the bonding "dream" Steve appeared to
be tranced out and not as fully aware as she was.
later Angelina meets Steve in her hometown, which is over 100 miles away
from his residence. It is unlikely that they would even meet considering
the distance between them. The couple has an instant attraction and
sense of recognition with one another. They fall in love at first sight
and are compelled to continue to communicate with one
The love bite pair call one another often and make
secret plans to meet one another. Steve is married to another woman, but
going through a separation. One weekend the couple sneaks off for a
weekend fling in another city so that no one would recognize
While Steve and Angelina are away, Dick is at home
experiencing spontaneous remote viewing images of his wife making love
to another man. These vivid mental images pop into Dick’s head as if
they have been ‘inserted" in his mind. (These mental pictures Angelina
has associated with some ball of light phenomena).
He sees his
wife in a sexy, teddy night gown with a man he later described perfectly
as Steve although the two had never met, nor had Dick ever seen his
wife’s new teddy that she had just bought for her weekend rendezvous -
purposely hiding it out of the house so her husband wouldn’t find it.
incited to jealousy and rage, accusing Angelina of having an affair when
she returns from the trip. She denies his accusations, fearing abuse,
but is shocked he could perfectly describe everything Angelina and Steve
did, as if he was right there in the room with them.
Dick is so
enraged that he starts having homicidal ideations and obsesses over
taking revenge on his wife, her lover and then killing himself. During
this time of chaos and conflict, the paranormal activity and balls of
light phenomena increase in the household.
and Steve make plans to get married, but are continuously prevented from
being with one another for one reason or another. They both are in
anguish because they seem to be prevented from consummating their love
and passion for one another.
Dick’s homicidal tendencies subside
as the couple goes to counseling together with a friend who understands
the aspect of mind control and alien abductions. They try to make it
work between them, but Angelina is doubtful things will ever work
Six months later Angelina has another abduction where she
recalls beings told, "Steve will not be needed anymore." She also was
told that Steve was an abductee just for the purpose of their bonded
relationship, but he was "not in training" for any other purpose as
opposed to Angelina. Thereafter, Angelina no longer feels the obsessive
yearning for Steve and can easily let go of the relationship. She breaks
up with Steve, leaving him bewildered. Steve has never been aware of the
abductions, but only felt a strong sense of recognition when meeting
Meanwhile, Angelina continues to have abductions
involving Greys, Reptilians and human military. She
is put through a number of testing and training scenarios in very vivid
dreams. She and several other abductees in the support group experience
mutually shared dreams and abduction related testing and training
A male abductee in the support group named
Scott was set up in a bonding encounter with Angelina in which both
recalled the sexual nature of the "dream". This creates a strong sexual
tension between the two when they meet. They also experience a psychic
link and even telepathic connection with one another. Although they feel
a powerful chemistry between them, they refrain from any sexual
behavior. Both have become aware of the love bite bondings and purposely
avoid any intimate contact.
Instead, they are good platonic
friends and enjoy a close psychic bond with one another.
day, Angelina is still married to Dick. He has become aware of the
abductions and even has had some of his own. They have numerous marital
difficulties but have managed to stay together despite the odds against
Marital and Family Issues of Abductees
On the surface, these relationship problems appear to be
easily explained marriage and family issues. But as I got a closer look at
a number of abductees’ lives and interpersonal relationships it made me
wonder. The psychological swamp gas theory was no longer palatable.
something real, possibly sinister going on beneath the veil of alien
contact in these people’s lives. It made me ask the classic
first, the chicken or the egg?
dysfunctional relationship problems due to faulty coping mechanisms of
the individual’s response to alien abductions, or have the aliens’
deliberately contrived these family problems all
experience counseling abductees, one of the hallmarks of these peoples’
lives is the pattern of emotional isolation. This behavior can be
explained as a result of conditioning, learned adaptations from the
abductee’s family members, or reinforced by the alien handlers. In fact,
some persons have discovered that the aliens instructed them not to talk
about their encounters, making if apparent that the alien presence will go
to great lengths to maintain secrecy. They have often instilled false or
screen memories into their victims to cover their true activities and
Some researchers, myself included, believe that the
human bonding relationships which result in high drama and love
obsessions may be instigated for purposes other than the alien
breeding and hybridization program, as one may suspect at first
glance. (Although that is a factor that can’t be
Barbara Bartholic, a hypnotherapist and abductions
researcher of over 25 years has studied and defined the love obsession
phenomena down to a T.
Barbara states, "the individuals are set up during encounters from
childhood for maximum emotional and sexual bonding. The bonding process
sets the stage for the drama of the love obsession. The aliens are
somehow able to harvest the energies emitted by the emotionally charged
persons. These emotions range from intense love, longing, passion, rage,
jealousy and anticipation of one’s beloved."
Bartholic believes we are all affected by this phenomenon, not just
abductees and contactees. It is just that we only find out about this
love obsession phenomenon and all its associated life dramas
through the ones who do remember.
obsession drama can be played out on a large scale as well." Barbara
adds. "This is incorporated through glamorous public figures or super
drama-directing aliens can use the super star images for massive
unrequited love obsessions in the general population.
Barbara concludes, "It is like one big human Nintendo
Hopkins takes a more conservative approach and stated,
phenomena is not an across the board aspect of abductions. It is
relatively rare and must be differentiated from group abductions where
two or more persons get taken simultaneously, like husband and wife, or
friends for various reasons".
When asked the
general trend of how the abductees handle the bonding dramas, Bud
on the circumstances. If they are already married, it is extremely
Barbara Bartholic and Bud Hopkins, the bonding is not always
directed towards romantic, opposite sex situations, and can include same
sex friendships and even homosexual relationships.
point here is the emotional energy derived through a series of intense
dramas and crises. As ludicrous as it may sound, the aliens may feed
off these emotional energies.
I’ve had several persons admit to
me in private that they had a higher frequency of alien encounters during
the more stressful and chaotic periods of their lives.
As one of my
support group members has sarcastically described it,
have a way of jerking my emotional chain, putting me through intense
highs and lows."
Emotional Isolation and Maintenance of Secrecy: Dysfunctional Families
Our social structure and especially in the Western
world, reinforces the precept that "aliens and extraterrestrials do not
exist", and is only science fiction or psychological delusion. The
result of these negating and isolating conditions forces the abductee to
turn inward or even act our in rebellion against parents, school, religion
or society. The abductee who has been denied validation of their
experience will have a tendency to distrust their own feelings, stay in
denial or even act out in anger.
When core issues of alien
abductions (especially traumatic ones) are not addressed or resolved, a
variety of unhealthy coping skills result and extend into their
relationships and family systems. When alien abductions occur
multigenerationally, dysfunctional family issues are compounded. As
such, abductees may find themselves in unhealthy, unfulfilling
relationships that perpetuate the viscous cycle of emotional isolation or
even abuse. These dysfunctional patterns of relating serve to maintain the
secrecy of alien abductions.
Resolution and healing of alien
abduction related issues – and the dysfunctional family systems which
serve to maintain the secrecy – can only be complete when false and
misleading "swamp gas" theories are put to rest. It makes one ask what the
real culprit is.
There are scores of courageous abductees who have
come forward to share their stories, only to be ridiculed and blamed later
by the mainstream or even their peers in the UFO community. For these
reasons, many abductees simply remain silent. Volumes of valuable witness
testimonies and alien abduction related information remain under lock and
key - by the twin pillars of fear and imposed ignorance.
the true reasons for the aliens’ interference in our relationships,
we may never know, but from what some abductees have reported, the effects
are both devastating and exhilarating.
After surviving of the
grievous effects of an alien contrived love obsession, Sophia poetically
my experiences have been incomprehensibly painful, I wouldn’t trade them
for any other. I realized it was better to have loved and lost, than to
never have loved at all".
I marveled at
her statement and could only imagine what the aliens are missing.
The Question of Spiritual Warfare
It doesn’t take long for any abductions
researcher to realize the alien presence–or whatever is acting behind its
image–is deceptive, manipulative and intelligent. The aliens act both in a
physical and non-physical reality, a true paradox. Their ability to
orchestrate elaborate dramas, bondings and love
obsessions in abductee’s lives bespeaks an adeptness with unseen
Researchers and abductees have reported that
as they delved into UFO related matters and especially abduction related
memories, they were besieged with a number of detracting efforts that
served to steer them away from retrieving hard core information on alien
One woman in my
group named Sophia described it eloquently,
decided to pursue in-depth research into my abductions, a series of
tests and trials assailed me, like going through a gauntlet of spiritual
If we take a
closer look at how spiritual warfare operates within the abduction
phenomenon, we can see it manifest itself in the bonding dramas that
resulted in love obsessions. Two targeted abductees are chosen by their
alien handlers for their ability to create and express a high degree of
emotion within the context of a romantic attraction.
attraction more often than not results in an unrequited love
obsession for one or the other partner– or they are unable to
consummate their feelings due to other impossible circumstances. These
conditions release a variety of powerful emotions such as intense love,
longing, passion, rage, jealousy and anticipation of one’s beloved.
In the more
severe cases, the abductee became exhausted, depressed and ill, even to
the point of suicidal ideations, or brought close to death from severe
illness. The dramas that were set into motion in these people’s lives
caused a lot of chaos and conflict, some even losing their marriages due
to alien interference and manipulation.
The flip side is that some
of the abductees who experienced deep emotional conflict and intense love
also reported a release of creative energy at the height of the obsession.
In one case, the abductee moved into new levels of ecstatic mystical
experience as a result of reaching the deepest degree of her emotional
capacity. Paradoxically, we see excruciating grief and pain of unrequited
love on one hand, and ecstatic mystical visionary unions and creative
inspiration on the other.
If frequency of alien encounters is
directly proportional to high drama, chaos and conflict, then we can
surmise that the alien presence is somehow benefiting from our emotional
energies. In the cases of bonded love obsessions, a high degree of
emotional and sexual passion was present. Aliens have a keen interest in
our capacity to feel and express love and other highly charged
We need to ask some serious questions. What is the true
essence of human abductees as a resource for these alien beings? Rather
than researching indefinitely with frustration and confusion, ask the
question: What are the intentions and capabilities of the aliens based on
their ability to insidiously orchestrate such elaborate dramas such as
Within the annals of contemporary alien abduction
research we can say that the aliens are carrying out some kind of
genetic human/alien hybridization program spanning several
generations. This is what we see on the surface and it may very well be
When we look
deeper we may suspect the worst conspiracy theory imaginable. And
somewhere in between, you may get a glimpse of the magick trick taking
place right before your eyes.
But where is the evidence of
UFO’s and extraterrestrials? Everyone asks.
the beef?" And to this I’d say,
"There is no beef. Only chunks of
horsemeat in a tossed salad of
human bonding dramas that resulted in love obsessions were a
serendipitous observation of abductee’s interpersonal relationships.
Although these bonding dramas did not occur to a majority of abductees,
its profound effects and ramifications are of noteworthy
If the alien presence can orchestrate people’s lives to
the extent demonstrated via their love lives–then we need to reassess the
intentions and capabilities of the alien abductors. Perhaps it is not a
far-fetched idea to hypothesize that the aliens play the role of the
mythical Cupid and his arrow. And much, much more.
the dramas of abductees lives opened up a doorway of perception hitherto
unacknowledged in the more scientific nuts and bolts methodologies of UFO
abduction research. I liken this concept to a "blocked memory" only
retrievable to conscious awareness by re-routing the neural
Summarized case studies of alien orchestrated human
bonding dramas were presented with characteristic signs and symptoms.
These patterns are unique to the abductee population and can be
clearly distinguished from other non-abduction related psychological and
It is of great importance to address the
culprits of emotional isolation and the maintenance of secrecy regarding
alien abductions within marriage and family systems. The key to unlocking
the mysteries and motives of the alien intelligence lies in the tenacity
of abductees to search for the truth of their experiences. Creating an
environment of safety free from ridicule and politically correct peer
pressure is the first step in uncovering the truth of alien
Discovering the reality of a lifetime of alien
encounters is a Pandora’s box few are willing or ready to open. A few
brave souls have explored the depths of their interactions with the alien
presence. For some, this means the realization that their whole lives have
been staged, manipulated and orchestrated at the
hands of the alien puppet masters – the architects of human drama.
realization throws a whole new understanding on the quest and value of